THE HARD WAY

______________________________________________________________________________________________

12.15.2006

Why does a person have to let me go before they really realize my value? The problem here is when someone goes beyond the friendship zone, regardless wether a comittment is present or not, I believe that we are already in a point of no return. It's been countless times when I've used the line, "Sorry, di mo ako iningatan eh". These people just don't seem to learn.

My friend Aibee would like to talk to her and say, "Ano pa inaarte mo? Di ka kawalan ni Pet, Magsisisi ka lang sa buhay mo. Napagdaanan ko na yan." I really regret that Aibee would be one of those people whom I had to leave behind. It wasn't my fault. I did everything I could for her, but she took me for granted. Now she regrets it? Why couldn't people just think ahead? Why couldn't they think that, this may seem like a pretty good idea right now, but after 3 or 5 years, will this still be the best option? Why do we have to learn the hard way?

From what I learned in my life, Experience is really the best teacher in life, but regret is your worst nightmare. We must make sure of what we really want, for what we may want right now may not be what we want in the future.♠